Question from Trish

Hi Host,

I do not know how good you are. But, I'll give you a shot.

I beat my girlfriend in Farmville and she is pissed about it. What is the best way to make her happy beside letting her beat me in Farmville (which is mostly not going to happen)?

She threaten to break up w/ me.

Whatever you do, do not let her beat you in farmville! If you are that good she will instantly know that you're only doing it to please her. Women don't like weakness. Sometimes honesty is the best policy. Just be open and tell her how you feel about this. It's unlikely that a single game of farmville changed your relationship so much, there must be something more to it, something deeper than a game that she is acting out. Talk to her openly and candidly on the direction of your relationship, and search for clues in her response to find out the real reason she might be so upset, because it's highly unlikely that its all because of her losing to you in a game. FInd out the real issues or concerns she is having and address them. They might be related to your relationship with her, but they don't have to be. Its possible she is dealing with something from outside your relationship that is making her behave like this. Hope this helps!